Basic etiquette and cultural customs in China

2 weeks ago

Zhang Peng

2 minutes

Core Daily Etiquette (Essential for Common Situations)

· Greetings & Communication: Handshake should be firm but not too strong, make eye contact. Let elders/superiors offer their hand first. Use titles like “Mr./Ms.”, “Professor/Teacher”, or “Senior”. Don’t interrupt others.
· Manners & Actions: Don’t be loud in public (subway, classroom). Wait your turn in line. Give and receive items (business cards, books) with both hands. Say “Thank you” promptly when helped.
· Table Manners: Elders/guests start eating first. Use serving spoons for shared food. Don’t pick through the dishes. When toasting, hold your glass lower than the other person’s. Don’t slurp food or talk with food in your mouth.

Key Cultural Customs (Avoid Mistakes & Show Respect)

· Traditional Holidays: During Chinese New Year visits, say good wishes (like “Happy New Year, all the best”). Politely refuse a red envelope once before accepting. For Mid-Autumn Festival, admire the moon and eat mooncakes, emphasizing family reunion. During Tomb-Sweeping Festival, be solemn and respectful, no loud play.
· Social Interactions: Make an appointment before visiting classmates/teachers. Bring a small gift (like fruit, local snacks) to show thoughtfulness. Don’t be late for gatherings. Say goodbye to the host if leaving early.
· Things to Avoid: Avoid the number “4” (sounds like the word for “death”). Avoid giving clocks (sounds like “end”) or pears (sounds like “separate”) as gifts. Don’t ask personal questions about age, salary, or relationship status. Don’t spit or litter in public.

Campus-Specific Etiquette (Fit for Student Life)

· In Class: Raise your hand to speak. Don’t interrupt the teacher.
· After Class: Ask the teacher questions politely and respectfully.
· In the Dorm: Respect your roommates’ sleep schedule. Don’t play sound loudly late at night. Take turns cleaning shared areas. Keep personal items tidy.
· In the Library: Keep quiet. Set your phone to silent. Return borrowed books on time. Don’t write in or tear the pages.